'taken for granted'

Sometimes somehow, we tend to take for granted what we've achieved till now.
We tend to ignore every single nikmat been given to us.We tend to deny everyone and everything that lingers around us only to worry about issues that are out of our control..

Those issues might differ in each individuals; depend on what's ahead or what's still left behind. 

But this time, i wanna focus on life companion (orang Melayu says: jodoh)..This one is the biggest bestest SECRET from Allah that keeps us in curiosity. Of who'll the person be, where to meet and when is the right time. Thus, out of curiosity, in most cases, we do trial-and-error..try to befriend, try to get to know each other, in fact, try to develop mutual love feeling. In the end, we meet a dead end. 💔💔💔.

But wait. 

It's trial and error, remember? Coz we have no idea of whose name is written for us. We can't beat Allah's plans, can we? Not every relationship is meant to work, sometimes it exists so that we learn a lesson. Improve us as person. Only one relationship will last; with Allah. 

Thus, don't be a cat who is killed by curiosity. Be a wise-man, strong-lady, and optimist person who is not affected by the past to step forward and move on. Be a strong-man, wise-lady who is not surrounded by a feeling of guilt with the past to build a new life. 

Have faith, Allah has prepared someone better for you, for him and her. Someone who is the best. (seriously?) yeah..trust me. i write what i see, listen and experience. 

Make du'a coz you (we) don't have the power to do that heart and mind control of others but He. Have faith..

There was once, a sister told me this: "There's so much more in this life than the fixation of love between opposite sexes. "Indeed. So much more. And if you really hadam this phrase, Subhanallah, you'll be content with what surrounds you. Dan paling penting, redha, sabar dan syukur.

May Allah bless.

'that girl'

That girl is a real crowd pleaser
Small world, all her friends know of me
Young bull living like an old geezer
Quick release the cash, watch it fall slowly
.
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That's how Black Beatles put it.
And you, 'that girl' you hate is not a girl anymore. You've lost the track she was following.

she's a lady, knowing what is her priority.
she's a lady, doing her responsibility.
she's a lady now. That's how i see her.

And you, she wanted peace, you gave her peaceful attack instead.
she asked 'Can we be friend?'
you answered with ignorance, not even a helping hand.
'Is that how 'girl' reacts?' she asked in guilt.

And you, still see her as a girl huh?
You may borrow her diary, and learn 'Life as a Lady' topic in it.
she has gone through, what you're being through.
an ocean of tears was wasted yet a new version of her was created

Be a lady, my friend. i know you will someday. The matter is, when.

NZ | 060117

note:
i pray to Allah that someday we will go through this difficult times with easiness. i pray that Allah will guide us and save us from this heartache that is worse than heart-attack. i am truly sorry to interrupt your love story. forgive me. that is all i ask. i am no one but a little servant who needs Him forever. how about you?